Getting the right mindset to stop drinking

Stop Drinking Mindset

The right mindset to stop drinking

mindset to stop drinkingThere is no arguing the fact; problems with alcohol can make you downright miserable.

It can feel like being trapped in an endless loop. You keep running, hoping against hope to find the exit but the story just keeps repeating over and over.

Similar to the background scenery in a ‘Scooby Do’ cartoon.

It is very easy to feel sorry for ourselves, we can even insist that we have a disease called ‘alcoholism’ and other people will also feel very sorry for us.

However, this sort of pity party solves nothing. I am not the sort of therapist that is going to hold your hand and tell you how terrible it is for you.

Alcohol addiction is miserable and we can blame our parents, the marketing, the social condition or anything we choose. But this sort of thinking will not deal with the problem.

In the members area of the Stop Drinking Expert there are people who have been sober for years.

There are also people who still can’t go more than a day without a drinking.

If you ask me what the difference is between type of people are, I would say: The sober people do all the things that the drinkers refuse to do. This is the right mindset to stop drinking.

Sober people don’t have excuses, only the drinkers do.

Show me someone who is still drinking and I guarantee you that they have a list of pre prepared reasons why!

They will tell you that ‘they are having a tough time at home/work at the moment’, ‘they will just get Christmas out of the way’, ‘as soon as the vacation is done and dusted’ etc.

The list of reasons to fail goes on and on.

Your journey to escaping alcoholism begins with a dumping of the excuses and taking 100% responsibility for the situation.

Notice I did not use the word ‘blame’, because it is a pointless bleating of the ego and nothing more.

Blame never serves any worthwhile purpose.

For example, let’s say your goal is to run the 4-minute mile.

Unfortunately, during training one day you fall and break your leg. You may think that this is a really great reason why you have failed to achieve your goal, and perhaps it is. But does using the excuse give you anything in it’s place?

You missed your target, suck it up and deal with it. Stop using excuses to justify your failure.

Remember the Rocky quote… winning has nothing to do with how hard you can hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep getting back up.

When you come up with an excuse you are choosing the stay down on the mat.

To become a happy sober person you take responsibility and develop an internal state of mind that takes ownership of the challenge.

You must have a deep determination to deal with this problem no matter what is thrown at you.

Not because someone else told you to or because you feel guilty about letting other people down but purely for the love of yourself.

Start by taking a pen and paper and sitting down alone. Write down every reason why you are drinking alcohol.

Common reasons include:

•    Because it helps me relax
•    I need it to cope with my stressful life
•    I can’t sleep without a drink
•    It’s my only pleasure
•    It helps me be more sociable

Keep writing until you have exhausted yourself.

Every single reason you have for drinking is down there on that piece of paper.

In my new book The Alcohol Escape Plan you will find every excuse you can think of explained in full.

The truth behind the bullshit, if you will forgive the expression.

Every single reason, even if it seems entirely logical is nothing but an illusion – including that list I just gave you.

There is a reason why alcohol is the second most addictive substance on planet earth (just behind heroin).

That is because it is exceptionally good at what it does and it is exceptionally good at making all its traps and tricks look harmless.

Alcohol hooks people in so slowly that you don’t notice what is going on until it’s too late. It’s like painfully slow-moving quicksand.

Alcohol will let you get all the way out into the middle before it starts to pull you under.

Just like being in quicksand, kicking and screaming and blaming someone else for not warning you won’t help you get out.

The mindset to stop drinking starts with responsibility

You got yourself into this loop and it is you who is going to get yourself out. I challenge you to learn the truth about every one of those reasons you noted down.

Dissect them and tear them apart until you fully understand how the illusion is performed.

Then accept 100% responsibility for dealing with this addiction.

There is no magic bullet out there; there is no pill you can take to make this go away.

There is a solution but you can’t buy it because you already own it. It’s inside you – your focus and commitment to get this poison out of your life at all costs is the secret to escaping the loop of alcohol addiction once and for all.

If you are ready to take the next step and take action. Click here to join the Stop Drinking Expert program.

Craig Beck - The Stop Drinking Expert

About the author: Stop Drinking Expert - Craig Beck ABNLP. ABHYP. DhP. is an internationally renowned, specialist alcohol cessation coach and quit drinking mentor. Using his experience as a former problem drinker, combined with professionals qualifications, accreditations and practice as an addiction therapist, ICF licensed coach, master practitioner of NLP and master hypnotherapist. Independently respected and rated. Not a substitute for professional medical advice.

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